Jar Of Hearts

Album

Lovestrong.

Label

Atlantic Records

Genre

Dance-pop

Composer(s)

Christina Perr;iDrew Lawrence;Barrett Yeretsian

Entered Chart

Jul 17, 2010

Peak Date

Mar 19, 2011

Released

July 27, 2010

Recorded

Unknown

Catalog #

Ms. Perri Lane Digital

In this song, Christina Perri looks to distance herself from a guy who is worse than a heartbreaker - he's a heart collector, keeping them in a (metaphorical) jar and tearing love apart. She wrote the lyric about a serial heart collector she once dated. On her blog, she told the story behind the tune: "I wrote the song after I went home to Philadelphia for the holiday last December [2009]. I sat in my childhood bedroom and hid from the boy (with the jar of hearts) who wanted to see me. My heart wanted to see him, my head knew better." "Jar Of Hearts" was Christina Perri's first single, released in 2010 about 10 months before it appeared on her debut album, Lovestrong. Perri moved to Los Angeles from Philadelphia with one suitcase and a guitar. She was hoping to follow in the footsteps of her older, musician brother Nick Perri, the former lead guitarist of Shinedown. Her breakthrough came when "Jar Of Hearts" featured on the June 30, 2010 episode of the nationwide televised dance competition So You Think You Can Dance before it was even released. Billy Bell and Kathryn McCormick danced to the song on the show in a routine choreographed by Stacey Tookey. The routine and the song got a great reaction from viewers, so the track was rushed onto iTunes, where it immediately landed at #20 on the overall chart. It was gradually added to radio playlists, and on September 13, 2010, the video landed on YouTube. The song made a slow climb up the charts, reaching #17 in the US on March 19, 2011. Perri learned about the song's placement on So You Think You Can Dance, following a particularly grueling shift at a Café in Beverly Hills, one that had her daydreaming about dramatic ways to cease employment. "I was being yelled at all day," she said. "I got into my car and I wasn't 100 feet from the café when I got the call. I screamed. Then I cried. Then I called my mom." The song's music video was directed by Jay Martin (Death Cab for Cutie, Cold War Kids, Wolfmother) and was shot on a soundstage designed as a New York City street. The clip features So You Think You Can Dance All-Stars Kathryn McCormick and Allison Holker (who both danced to Christina's song on the show) as well as Keltie Colleen, Peter Chu, Chelsea Thedinga, Chantel Aguirre and Eboni Adams. SYTYCD's Stacey Tookey choreographed the dancers. Perri's co-manager Tom Gates told Billboard magazine that it was Perri who came up with the idea for the video. "When we were flying back from all those meetings, she was all keyed up and I just wanted to sleep," he recalled. "I told her she should spend the flight writing a treatment for the video if she needed something to do, and when I woke up at LAX, she had done it." Perri admitted to PopEater that it's bittersweet that so many people can relate to a song that has such a painful meaning. She explained: "I go to all these places, and I've been fortunate enough to meet a lot of people who like the song and to play it for them. They come up to me, and it's not like they come up and they're like, 'This song about the sunshine and being on the beach all day. I love that song and I totally relate!' They're literally like, crying, and some of them are like, 'I've just gone through a divorce, and this song made me'... but that's normally the end of that sentence or story. [Then] it's always like, 'I have hope now,' or 'I've gained strength from this.' Even though it's really a kind of bizarre, sad, heart-wrenching topic, I feel like the main theme in the song, if you listen, is about getting stronger and not going back to that person that keeps breaking your heart. It's a weird one, but I like the fact that people end up feeling stronger after they hear it." As a result of this song, Perri's fans would often send her jars with hearts of some kind - not real ones (we hope). Perri wrote this song with Barrett Yeretsian and Drew Lawrence. Yeretsian produced it. Christina Perri followed "Jar Of Hearts" with a few more hits, including "A Thousand Years" from the Twilight movie Breaking Dawn. She did a lot of touring before shifting her focus to family. In 2017, she got married, and in 2018 had her first child, a daughter named Carmella.

I know I can't take one more step towards you
'Cause all that's waiting is regret
Don't you know I'm not your ghost anymore
You lost the love I loved the most

I learned to live, half alive
And now you want me one more time

And who do you think you are?
Runnin' 'round leaving scars
Collecting your jar of hearts
And tearing love apart
You're gonna catch a cold
From the ice inside your soul
So don't come back for me
Who do you think you are?

I hear you're asking all around
If I am anywhere to be found
But I have grown too strong
To ever fall back in your arms

And I learned to live, half alive
And now you want me one more time

And who do you think you are?
Runnin' 'round leaving scars
Collecting your jar of hearts
And tearing love apart
You're gonna catch a cold
From the ice inside your soul
So don't come back for me
Who do you think you are?

Dear, it took so long just to feel alright
Remember how to put back the light in my eyes
I wish I had missed the first time that we kissed
'Cause you broke all your promises
And now you're back
You don't get to get me back

And who do you think you are?
Runnin' 'round leaving scars
Collecting your jar of hearts
And tearing love apart
You're gonna catch a cold
From the ice inside your soul
So don't come back for me
Don't come back at all

And who do you think you are?
Runnin' 'round leaving scars
Collecting your jar of hearts
Tearing love apart
You're gonna catch a cold
From the ice inside your soul
Don't come back for me
Don't come back at all

Who do you think you are?
Who do you think you are?
Who do you think you are?