don't wanna break up again

Album

Eternal Sunshine

Label

Republic Records

Genre

Dance-pop

Entered Chart

Mar 23, 2024

Peak Date

Mar 23, 2024

Don't Wanna Break Up Again" blends '90s R&B and pop influences, with Ariana Grande's vocals conveying a mix of indifference, exhaustion, and a lingering desire. This song, Track 3 on her Eternal Sunshine album, explores the complexities of a strained relationship. Grande sings of her emotional pain while simultaneously grappling with the pull to stay connected. She acknowledges an unbalanced dynamic ("this situationship has to end") where efforts to improve ("spent so much on therapy") feel unmatched. Despite the strong urge to avoid another painful separation ("I don't wanna break up again"), a deeper understanding emerges. The song recognizes that ending the relationship, however difficult, might be necessary to prevent further emotional harm for both parties. Speaking to Zach Sang for Amazon Music, Grande described "Don't Wanna Break Up Again" as the "hangover" of "Bye," suggesting a lingering effect from the previous song's themes. Both songs deal with the aftermath of a relationship, but "Don't Wanna Break Up Again" focuses more on introspection and processing the situation. Grande said: "There are so many polarizing feelings that we experience as human beings with regards to one's situation, and that's what I like about these two being back to back, because in "'bye' I say, 'at least we know we tried, didn't we? The two of us, we did good,' and then in 'Don't Wanna Break Up Again' it's like, 'you didn't even try 'til the end.' Both feelings exist at different, and I like the humaness of that. I like that they are layered and complicated, and all of the different emotions that come with loving and leaving, are kinda showcased, I guess." The song's release in 2024 aligns with the timeframe of Ariana Grande's separation from her husband Dalton Gomez (announced in July 2023 and finalized in October 2023). The song is likely an exploration of the complexities and emotional struggles associated with ending their relationship. Grande co-wrote and co-produced the song with Max Martin and Ilya. Swedish songwriter and record producer Max Martin is one of the most successful figures in contemporary music. He has written and produced numerous chart-topping hits for artists like Backstreet Boys, Britney Spears, Katy Perry, Taylor Swift, The Weeknd, and many others. This collaboration isn't new. Martin has co-written and produced several of Ariana Grande's biggest hits, including "No Tears Left to Cry," "Break Up With Your Girlfriend, I'm Bored," and "Yes, And?." Another prominent Swedish songwriter and record producer, Ilya Salmanzadeh, frequently collaborates with Max Martin. Ilya is known for his work in pop, R&B, and hip-hop, crafting tracks for artists like Jennifer Lopez, Nicki Minaj, and Ellie Goulding. Similar to Martin, Salmanzadeh has a history of successful collaborations with Ariana Grande.

I fall asleep crying
You turn up the tv
You don't wanna hear me
One more sleepless night
Big day in the morning
So I take my time to self-soothe

I'm too much for you
So I really gotta do
The thing I don't wanna do
No, I don't, don't, don't, don't

I don't wanna fuck with your head
It's breaking my heart
To keep breaking yours again (yours again, yours again)
This situationship has to end
But I just can't refuse
I don't wanna break up again, baby (up, up again, up again)

I made it so easy
Spent so much on therapy
Blamed my own co-dependency
But you didn't even try
When you finally did, it was at the wrong time
Won't abandon me again for you and I, I

I'm too much for you
So I really gotta do
The thing I don't wanna do
No, I don't, don't, don't, don't

I don't wanna fuck with your head
It's breaking my heart
To keep breaking yours again (yours again, yours again)
This situationship has to end
But I just can't refuse
I don't wanna break up again (up, up again, up again)

We both know it's time
So we say goodbye
Just one kiss goodbye
With tears in our eyes
Hope you won't, won't regret me
Hope you'll still think fondly
Of our little life

I don't wanna fuck with your head
It's breaking my heart
To keep breaking yours again (yours again, yours again)
This situationship has to end
But I just can't refuse
I don't wanna break up again, baby (up, up again, up again)

Don't wanna break up again
I don't wanna, baby
Situationship has to end
Know it has to end
I just can't refuse