What Kinda Man

Album

Parker McCollum

Label

Universal Music Group Nashville

Genre

Country

Composer(s)

Natalie Hemby;Parker McCollum;Jeremy Spillman

Entered Chart

Aug 30, 2025

Peak Date

Dec 6, 2025

Released

September 13, 2024

Recorded

March 20–26, 2024 Studio Power Station (New York, New York)

The premise of "What Kinda Man" is simple: Parker McCollum is coming to grips with his wild streak, the late nights and questionable decisions that have defined his life so far. But then, as fate (and country songs) often have it, she walks in. The one. The game-changer. McCollum sings about a woman who makes him want to be different - someone who inspires him to clean up his act and strive to be the man she deserves. But then you walk in floatin' on air And you look across the room at me Forget the man I am, what kinda man do you need? It's a moment of reckoning, where honky-tonk bravado meets heart-on-sleeve vulnerability. Suddenly, the late nights and reckless behavior seem less appealing, and the idea of settling down, even returning to church, doesn't feel like such a stretch. The track is a gritty mashup of grungy guitar, honky-tonk twang, and a ferocious harmonica. McCollum's vocals, all grit and gravel, offer the kind of raw, unapologetic delivery that country music thrives on. McCollum's journey to this song's creation is as rugged as the lyrics themselves. He's been open about how his wife, Hallie Ray Light, was the catalyst for his transformation. "I was never going to get married, never going to have kids... and when I met Hallie Ray, that all kind of changed," he told Country Now. "I needed to clean up my act and she was the one that made me want to do that." Parker McCollum married Hallie Ray Light on March 28, 2022, nine months after they got engaged. The wedding ceremony took place in Tomball, Texas, which is just outside of Houston. The country star has a history of writing songs inspired by Hallie Ray, including "To Be Loved By You," "Handle On You" and "I Ain't Going Nowhere." The song's origin is as quintessentially country as it gets: McCollum started writing it after a turkey hunting trip in Kansas. Alone with his guitar, he began freestyling lines, eventually landing on an apologetic phrase about pulling an all-nighter - a nod to his former life. The hook, "Forget the man I am, what kinda man do you need?" was strong enough that McCollum knew he had to save it for a writing session. That day came on April 26, 2022, when songwriters Natalie Hemby and Jeremy Spillman joined him to finish the track. "Parker just gifted this to us like our Christmas presents," Hemby told Billboard. The first verse and chorus were already so well-formed that the co-writers barely changed a line. McCollum had one specific demand: he wanted to include a line about never stepping foot back in Union Valley Church again, a place he'd stumbled upon during his drive home from the turkey hunt. The church became a symbol for the singer's willingness to change - to return to a place he'd long abandoned in an effort to win over the woman who inspired this shift. "I think that's a theme that's true for a lot of guys," Spillman said. "We are kind of hell-raisers till we find the one who gives us a reason not to be that way." McCollum initially recorded the song with a light swing feel, adding harmonica and creating a rough, work-in-progress version. But after switching producers and taking the track to Nashville's Blackbird Studio, the song began to take on new life. McCollum, along with his new producer Frank Liddell, brought in a cast of top-notch musicians, including Cage the Elephant's Nick Bockrath, to give the song its gritty, no-nonsense backbone. McCollum's vocal take was raw and unpolished, but that's exactly how Liddell liked it; he wanted the final performance to retain that live-in-the-moment energy. Madi Diaz's atmospheric backing vocals lend the song an extra layer of emotional weight. Liddell's decision to include her was no accident: "We were kind of feeling like there should be a female and just trying to find something interesting," Liddell said. "It kind of solves the whole element of having a woman in there. The song's about, you know, talking to a woman." Directed by Dustin Haney, the cinematic music video for "What Kinda Man" showcases Parker McCollum embodying the song's "bad-boy-gone-good" lyrics. The video shows him performing while engaging in activities like spinning tires and sinking shots in a game of pool. Parker McCollum released "What Kinda Man" as the first single from his self-titled album. After years chasing the idea of what a "country singer" should sound like, he realized his best work comes from just being himself. That sense of self-discovery is what made Parker McCollum the right title. "I spent so much time trying to be a country singer and sound like country singers," he told Audacy's Katie Neal. "And I'm just like, man, I don't think I do. And that's all right." The album, which he recorded in a hyper-focused weeklong stretch in New York City, is the first since Limestone Kid that he says feels truly like him, right down to the name on the cover. McCollum recorded the album in complete isolation, locking into a daily rhythm of room service breakfast, 10-11 hours in the studio, and no distractions. "I didn't go to a restaurant, didn't go to a bar... it was intense, emotional, and grueling," he said. He even avoided leaving the hotel except to commute to the studio. "We didn't know what we were chasing; we were just chasing whatever came out of us that day."

Look at that I done stayed up all night again
I know I swore the last time would be the last time but here I am
I ain't too sure what they want me to do
Clean up my act, I been thinkin' 'bout you
Ah baby here we go one more time
You know it's harder than it looks to walk that line

Yeah, I've been running so damn long
There ain't a woman who could settle me down
Wilder than a bat out of hell
Off the rails and blazin' through town
But then you walk in floatin' on air
And you look across the room at me
Forget the man I am, what kinda man do you need?

I swore that I would never step foot back
Inside the union valley church again
But here I stand just north of Oklahoma
Tryin' to wash away my sins
I know damn well what I ought to do
I have to have you, I just can't stand to lose
Ah baby here we go one more time
You know I'll love you if you let me 'til the end of the line

Yeah, I've been running so damn long
There ain't a woman who could settle me down
Wilder than a bat out of hell
Off the rails and blazin' through town
But then you walk in floatin' on air
And you look across the room at me
Forget the man I am, what kinda man do you need?
What kinda man do you need?
What kinda man do you need?

I've been running so damn long
There ain't a woman who could settle me down
Wilder than a bat out of hell
Off the rails and blazin' through town
But then you walk in floatin' on air
And you look across the room at me
Forget the man I am, what kinda man do you need?
Forget the man I am, what kinda man do you need?
What kinda man do you need?
What kinda man do you need?