In My Room

Album

Single

Label

Self Released

Genre

Hard rock

Media Type

DD

Duration

2:43

Composer(s)

Julia Capello;Nicholas Bergere;Steph Jones

Entered Chart

Mar 21, 2026

Peak Date

Apr 18, 2026

Released

March 22, 2024

Catalog #

Girls in Purgatory

There is something about the phrase "In My Room" that songwriters simply cannot resist. It suggests privacy, obsession, and the faint possibility of emotional ruin behind a closed door. The Beach Boys turned it into a sanctuary in their 1963 song "In My Room," a place to retreat from the world. Decades later, Frank Ocean took a rather less tranquil approach with "In My Room," where the room feels less like a refuge and more like a self-contained universe: cool, detached, and faintly surreal, with thoughts ricocheting off the walls instead of settling comfortably inside them. Into this slightly crowded lineage walks Julia Wolf, who treats the room not as a refuge but as a kind of emotional evidence locker. "In My Room" is Julia Wolf's raw, obsessive portrait of longing for someone who has already moved on. "It's the obsessive back and forth nature of wanting to hold onto pieces of someone who isn't looking to be held by you anymore," she explained to Paste magazine. "I'd never experienced love like that before," she added to the BBC. "The honeymoon phase was fantastic – but then you start to think, 'Oh, wow, this person is too good for me, and I don't want to lose them.'" The song hinges on Wolf's struggles to believe that someone might genuinely like her unless there is physical proof. "My brain cannot accept if someone is saying they like me or whatever they want to date me, doesn't matter," she told Genius. "I think it helps me if I see their things in my room. Like, we're creating space for each other and he's choosing my room to be a safe space, and, like, I can look at these things in a tangible way and be like, "Okay, this is real." Like, I'm not just making everything up." The song grew out of the breakdown of a relationship in early 2024. Wolf crafted the central lyric, "I'd slit my own throat just to see if you'd mourn me," while writing about a recent ex. Wolf's default setting is "I don't feel good enough," and the extreme lyric is a direct reflection of that, imagining the most dramatic possible act just to get confirmation that someone would actually miss her. Her lifelong obsession with horror films (her mother reportedly put on slasher films from her earliest childhood) also fed into the song's macabre edge. Aware of how dark it was, Wolf texted her sister and her best friend to check whether it crossed a line. Once she got the green light, she found another key lyric - "I stalk myself on the internet just to see what you'll find" - already saved in her phone's Notes app. Those two lines became the spine of the track. Wolf told Billboard that writing with such rawness "is something that took me until my 30s to understand that that's what I want to do; be as honest as possible." Wolf wrote "In My Room" while living in New York, recording just a simple voice note of herself playing guitar. She described the writing process as coming out in "one word vomit." Wolf then sent the track to her LA-based producer Scro, and he reproduced the whole song from that demo. Wolf originally released "In My Room" in March 2024 via independent distributor Stem, teasing it relentlessly on TikTok by pairing audio snippets with rotating images of Twilight characters: Bella Swan, Edward Cullen, and Alice Cullen. Videos celebrating Kristen Stewart and Ashley Greene racked up millions of views, helping push the track to #1 on the US Viral Chart and past 31 million streams by the time her debut album Pressure arrived in May 2025. The video for "In My Room" was released on May 22, 2025, the same day as the Pressure album. It was creative-directed by Tanner Barry, with Geoffrey Bywater appearing as the director/actor on screen. True to the song's horror-inflected aesthetic, the video features special effects makeup by Erica (Bunny) Armendariz. Pressure was released on May 23, 2025. The album blends trap-pop, emo, shoegaze, and metal textures, and Wolf has described it as her most honest record to date: "I wasn't feeling seen or accepted. So I wanted this album to really express the emotions that came with that: the soft doubt, the lack of confidence, the comparing myself to literally everyone that breathes." The success of "In My Room" led directly to a collaboration with Drake, who discovered the song after a woman requested it at a club and subsequently slid into Wolf's Instagram DMs quoting its lyrics. The two exchanged numbers, Wolf sent demos, and the track "Dog House" (also featuring Yeat) was chosen, with Wolf's raw vocal as the intro. Released in September 2025, it became Wolf's first entry on the Billboard Hot 100, peaking at #53.

Oh, oh, oh
Oh, oh, oh
Oh, oh, oh
I want your things in my
Oh, oh, oh
Oh, oh, oh
Oh, oh, oh
In my room

I want your things in my room, I miss you all of the time
I stalk myself on the internet just to see what you'll find
I want your things in my room, I miss you all of the time
You make it look so easy, leaving everything behind
I want your things in my room, I miss you all of the time
I stalk myself on the internet just to see what you'll find
See what you'll find, see what you'll find
See what you'll find, see what you'll find
You make it look so easy, leaving everything behind

I want your things in my room, I miss you all of the time
I stalk myself on the internet just to see what you'll find
I want your things in my room, I miss you all of the time
You make it look so easy, leaving everything behind
I want your things in my room, I miss you all of the time
I stalk myself on the internet just to see what you'll find
I want your things in my room, I miss you all of the time
You make it look so easy, leaving everything behind

Oh, oh, oh
Oh, oh, oh
Oh, oh, oh
I want your things in my
Oh, oh, oh
Oh, oh, oh
Oh, oh, oh
In my room

I like when it's dark out, October will cure me
I'm walking these woods, am I thirty or thirteen?
Not asking for much, man, thought maybe you'd call me
I'd slit my own throat just to see if you'd mourn me, yeah

I want your things in my room, I miss you all of the time
I stalk myself on the internet just to see what you'll find
See what you'll find, see what you'll find
See what you'll find, see what you'll find
(Badger)
You make it look so easy, leaving everything behind

I want your things in my room, I miss you all of the time
I stalk myself on the internet just to see what you'll find
I want your things in my room, I miss you all of the time
You make it look so easy, leaving everything behind

Oh, oh, oh
Oh, oh, oh
Oh, oh, oh
I want your things in my
Oh, oh, oh
Oh, oh, oh
Oh, oh, oh
I want your things in my

I want your things in my room, I miss you all of the time
I stalk myself on the internet just to see what you'll find
I want your things in my room, I miss you all of the time
You make it look so easy, leaving everything behind